Saturday, March 11, 2006
SISter... SISter
One thing for sure, what makes a woman a woman, is going against the expectation of men, claiming women to be less capable . That takes courage, discipline and a good strategy. But what makes a woman more than a woman, if being over an above what other women think of you. And, trust me, thats important.
An angle in which a woman would analyse you is through the womanly traits you were given as a birth right as well as those qualities you acquire as you strive through the challenges of life. The one physical aspect women (and men) usually spontaneously/ instinctively talk about is the physical attributes of a woman. Be it at a social gathering, at a semina room, dance workshops, bike repairing shop, office, sch's kopitiam, family functions. The first thing that hits you when checking a lady out, is her looks. Be it a Prof, be it ur long lost cousins, be it the salesgirl at Zara..
Appearance...
The reason why I am bringin out this topic is because I like to observe girls. (I am not a lesbian or a bisexual being) I think women the more beautiful gender of the two God created. I like to judge a woman's wear, her tummy, her size of pores on her face, her shoes and her fingers. A corporate lady in power suit with moisturised hands and neck is a gem. A pregnant lady with cherry cheeks (on the face) and bagless eyes is rare. A girl with pleasant fashion taste, high heels and a confidant exterior is gorgeous. AND trust me, my opnions are as universal as they can get as I am influenced by the covers of Her World and Elle.
It bullshit if a girl cant make the effort to dress up. Bullcrap... unless she doesnt mix much in society, like full time mothers and grandmothers. But people living in the cosmopolitan world should make an effort to upkeep their appearance. I say UPKEEP and not over embellish. Cause you need not like Paris Humper Hilton, Winona Hot Rider, Angelina Pembusted Joline, Beyonce Crap Knowles, Mariah Fat Carey to be sexy or hot. You need not expose that neckline, or curvaceous legs to be a killer. You just need to put in the right amount of effort into dressing up.
Start with heels even if you are frankenstien tall. You can start by excercising to thin your bulky frame. I assure you cardio does wonders to the butt and the thighs. The tummy/pouch/ belly must not be blantantly flabby and thanks to the invention of gurdles. Moisturise the face, necks, hands and feet after bathing. Choose clothes which are bold (don be afraid of being BOLD) but respectably decent. Choose those you can wear with several different occasions. Dont buy too many
kuniang clothes from Hangten, Baleno, S&K.. Cause its budget shop which is POPULAR with the teens. Nice places to shop cheap is Bugis Street and Fas East Plaza. Read magazines when you have nothin to do on a Sunday mornin. Wear high heels whenever you could. You don have to sit cross legged to be a girl. Sometimes like a man, makes a girl sexier sometimes, if she has the right attitude to pull it off. Legs apart 30-45 deg from the groin. Walk with a stacatto, fast and long strides. Don walk heavily like a bear or a fat monster. Light tap of the heels is all you need. Don be clumsy, eg look out for places you can hold in the train, in case, the trains jerks. Ergonomics....Its kindda nice to see a girl walkin confidently and fast, like she knows alot of purpose in life. And I think women should return a smile when she receives one from the guys. Of course, not to an old pakcik or ah pek who is clearly, cheekyly checking out on you. But lets not be cynnical, not all men checking you out have indecent intentions. Some are exploring beauty, which maybe, you yourself don think you have.
On the social aspect, I guess women should be more genuine. Don use hints, say what you think. If you don have anythin to say, shut ur gap. Haha... Til then.
Love you, Khairunessa ;) You are pretty and You know it, you still need alot of growin but take your time...
~ written in response to my sister's bloggie: hair, legs and all in betweensMyra Abd Kadir~ at 12:28
